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  1. Yesterday
  2. Brynneth

    BfA Mythics

    Going to assume that since there's only two people online that there's nothing happening tonight. Won't be around tomorrow as have plans.
  3. Nacey

    BfA Mythics

    We're around in theory but I'm ill and we haven't eaten yet so doing that for now. If there's the rest of a group online message me and I'll see if we can get online. Otherwise we'll try to be on tomorrow maybe though we may well not have a tenth (or ninth, even) person.
  4. Dave

    BfA Mythics

    Update: I am tired and grumpy. I will likely not be on tonight
  5. Gragneth

    Distant Worlds

    Oh yeah I am sure I will be there.
  6. Welsper

    BfA Mythics

    Will be here, hope we can get something done, as its quite unlikely well get to do anything next week (think of the titan essence! i mean azerium.. titarite? whatever)
  7. Dave

    BfA Mythics

    My attendance tonight is very dependent on how fucked I can be after I collect my car from the garage outside of town. Will advise accordingly
  8. Last week
  9. Largi

    Distant Worlds

    To reiterate this... I didn't know you wern't using it and have tried to talk to you a few times on it not realising. Come join in with us please , we're all the same friends we've always been and this feels like such a stupid thing for us to fight over Especially with Distant Worlds... You, Lei and I have been to them all.
  10. Largi

    Distant Worlds

    Will you still be around on Saturday to hang out a bit and join us (hopefully all) for our pre show nandos?
  11. Gragneth

    Distant Worlds

    I got tickets. However in my haste I booked for Friday by accident. Went for Grand tier and got box 23 which is almost bang in the middle.
  12. Kryton

    Distant Worlds

    I'm done. Do what you like.
  13. Brynneth

    Distant Worlds

    I still want you to be my friend. I'm upset and frustrated because with me having posted the announcement of Distant Worlds in Discord on Monday as soon as it was announced, Nik and I then started organising what dates people could make and discussing possibly bulk-buying tickets, having tagged you in and not realising that despite being a member on the server that you wouldn't receive announcements on it, and to then get accused of excluding you. Below is the original post. Obviously the last thing we are trying to do is exclude you.
  14. Buachalla

    Distant Worlds

    In regards to this specific thread. I must have checked here not long before you posted, and assumed nothing was going to be here. I don't check here often as I'm completely disinterested in WoW regards that now and that's the majority of what's here.
  15. Buachalla

    Distant Worlds

    Nobody here was personally invited, at least not any guild members. I threw up a post, I talked about in /g chat, if people asked I gave them a link. I'm not going to treat anyone special.
  16. Fyria

    Distant Worlds

    Thanks Dave, let me just cool down about it all for a bit and I'll have a chat with Todd, I'm getting a lot of mixed messages/impressions right now so it might be worth letting me clear my head a bit before I think about anything. 10 minutes ago I would have said that Mark and Gaz may have made it a deal breaker to ever feel like it was okay to join. It's hard because the whole situation has me feeling very upset and all I can see from this side is that people are just telling me that I shouldn't be feeling the way I'm feeling, which just makes me feel more upset and like I've lost people/friends.
  17. Fyria

    Distant Worlds

    Mark, you're not factually picking apart anything for me, it's a perception thing, people can say that I'm welcome, but that's not the same as feeling welcome, people giving me spack about things and guilt tripping me with TS makes me feel less welcome there and that people don't really want me there. Also I don't think I've ever actually been invited over in any concrete terms, so it feels more like people don't really want me to join Discord, but want to take the high horse in saying that someone else did so somewhere, and make sure I feel bad enough that I wouldn't want to be there. In the previous conversations we've had on it, it DOES feel like I'm being ganged up, just because you don't see it that way doesn't mean I don't feel it that way, especially when everyone is trying to tell me that how I feel is wrong and no one wants to actually talk to me about it properly, I even reached out to ask if someone could just talk to me one on one about it to break down and talk through issues, but people seemed to prefer to go on about stuff at me all together in the same place, so whatever. Regarding voice, which is a separate conversation, as far as was mentioned, most people didn't have strong feelings either way as far as it seamed, we had some technical issues, no one seemed to have technical or strong issues towards doing just Discord, so we ended up back on TS for voice. If you're going to claim this was my win as a result and try to hang something that appeared to be sorted on me because somehow now it's my fault everyone can't use the other voice option, then fine, do that, if there are strong arguments for using Discord that haven't been mentioned, we can go back to using that and I'll deal with a workaround, done. Or if I'm that much of a bother, I can just uninvolved myself from group and raid content, would that make things better for you? It feels like it. You're saying that I'm being told that I'm welcome but making it obvious at the same time that I'm not just seems to be the way it is.
  18. Dave

    Distant Worlds

    Sorry if it wasn't explicity said but you've always been welcome on discord. Also staying away isn't necessary
  19. Fyria

    Distant Worlds

    This is a proper first, and I actually appreciate this notion. Not sure Mark and Gaz feel the same right now though, since I think they'd rather avoid the drama involved if I were over there, but thanks Tim.
  20. Fyria

    Distant Worlds

    I'll address more later after food, but the voice chat was entirely separate with separate issues, I have opted to use it, although there are technical difficulties with the delay there and a hit if an annoying quality drop which bothers Todd more, I have suggested that I can just not transmit for Discord, but that was an entirely separate discussion and I haven't had the same issues with the voice coms as I have with people and the chat, and have been willing to use it if that's what people insist on. Voice argument has nothing to do with socialising on it as a general chat platform.
  21. Tim

    Distant Worlds

    Mark is correct. We want you to join in on discord and we’ve kept the chat on TS in light of your voice issues
  22. Brynneth

    BfA Mythics

    Works for me, am at the Cinema on Tuesday.
  23. Kryton

    Distant Worlds

    It is quite hard to fathom how you could misinterpret or misunderstand quite so many things or make so many incorrect statements in one forum thread. I hate to apply logic to a situation (that's a lie) but here we go. The conversation on this topic began in Discord before you started this thread. Nik made efforts to include you by tagging both Todd and you in the thread and was unaware that you would not see that. Quite apart from the fact that he did not know, Todd knew about the conversation and engaged in it so every effort was being made to include you. The fact that those involved had not seen this thread in the 7 hours you went from posting to throwing all your toys out of the pram is not an insult or rudeness or whatever other slight you feel it may portray. Most people are not on here 24/7. You have been invited to join multiple times by multiple people so the first point is entirely untrue. The whole drama thread shows people trying to get you to join in but you were too wrapped up in whatever was going on in your head to acknowledge that. I don't understand what you're talking about with people's attitude towards you. Most people involved in the conversation wanted to move voice to Discord (which didn't happen because of your objections so we all went with you) and text chat had already transitioned over organically. Other people not sharing your opinion is not them being dicks to you, it's just a difference of opinion. Once again, you are misinterpreting what is happening. People were not ganging up on you it's just that everyone else had one opinion and you had the other. People tried to talk to you about it and all we got in response was a load of hyperbole about how mean we all are. If you look at what happened, everything kicked off so we delayed using Discord for raiding to give you and Todd a chance to look into what was bothering you. Literally not a single thing on Discord was changed over the following three weeks and you didn't attend raid either. Since then the raids have been done on TS so basically you got exactly what you wanted out of the whole thing. Now that is the logically part of picking about your factually incorrect posts over, time for the last bit. I've had enough of this ridiculous emotional bullshit that you randomly spout on the forums without warning. We all have to tip-toe around you because you might blow up over a tiny little thing at any moment. Just look at what a nice, easy, relaxed conversation about a concert has turned into (see whole thread above here) for absolutely no reason and it is all because you are seemingly incapable of going through a rational thought process. I'm going to post this one more time in the hope that it will get through (because god-knows the other dozen attempts made by me and others have fallen on deaf ears). THERE IS NO DISCORD CLIQUE THERE IS NO ATTEMPT TO EXCLUDE YOU NO-ONE IS GANGING UP ON YOU YOU ARE IMAGINING EVERYTHING AND PISSING EVERYONE OFF IN THE PROCESS SO FUCKING STOP IT
  24. Dave

    BfA Mythics

    I intend to be on and available on Monday night, the static group is running Tuesday instead
  25. Fyria

    Distant Worlds

    But yes, we're going around in circles with this, so whatever. I'm not on it, nobody cares, end of.
  26. Fyria

    Distant Worlds

    It feels that no one wants me there and it's probably just easier to leave it that way then. People were ganging up on me when I was trying to work out ways with Todd to solve some of the issues I had with it, and I was also upset about the way people were pushing Discord early on and the way it felt really cliquey at the beginning. If I ever genuinely feel that anyone actually wants me to join the Discord club, then I'll actually consider joining, but last time not a single person wanted to message me and talk about it and just wanted to continue the ganging up in argument. Yes we are adults with a job and some of us kids, and it would been nice to have been treating with some fucking respect early on with regards to the issues I was having with it, rather than being pushed away. At the time is was very disheartening and yes, I do feel like people have pushed me away in the guild because people don't like me and the way I mentally deal with things sometimes, which is fair I guess and if that's the attitude people want to have then we'll all be stuck at this impass.
  27. Brynneth

    Distant Worlds

    Like, I don't understand where the fuck the idea that there is some elitist Discord clique is coming from. Lei thought it would be cool to have a guild Discord server like they were in for FF so would be easier to talk to people while at work and so... went and created one for us and gave everyone the link. People joined, or didn't - I seem to recall you saying that you weren't interested in using a "more buggy Slack" - and it just sort of rattled along with a few people chatting and sharing shit, griping about work, being shocked at plot developments in FFXIV questlines, whatever. After a whole year had passed, where virtually everyone in the guild was now using this Discord server, a couple of us mooted the idea of the guild using it for Voice Comms permanently since that would be something which Todd would no longer be burdened with managing. And then suddenly The Drama occurred. Which I still don't understand why it was such a fuss, over what is at the end of the day a goddamn voice/chat program. The idea that it could be anything to lose friends over is making me want to scream in frustration. We're all fucking grown-ups with careers and in some cases now kids and shit and we're getting fractious over an application? I'm done.
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